The amount of the gift does not matter

To cherish someone or show kindness by giving and receiving gifts is my love language. I’ve always enjoyed being on the lookout for something special for those who are dear to me.  It’s fun to embellish cards, write sweet, meaningful quotes and do quirky things to pretty up the simple.  I used to do that a lot when I was a student.  The amount of the gift does not matter.  What matters is the time, thought and the effort exerted in putting together something for someone special to me.

You’re always on my mind

I read in a commentary, “Whether that item is a tiny trinket from a thrift store, or a 50-foot sailboat is inconsequential.  Either convey the same message: I was thinking about you when I saw this. You’re always on my mind.”  That is precisely what I feel when I receive gifts and what I try to express every time I give one.  And that is probably why I’ve always kept more of them than I should.  I could unearth a couple of those gifts from way back my high school days and probably more at my mom’s place.  It’s a treasure of some sort, evoking nostalgic feelings at times.

I love what I do

My passion for growing complimenting my love of giving may have been inevitable but not without some hurdles.  I love what I do, but sometimes my tired muscles cry out to give up.  I just crave to sit, relax and enjoy a shot of caffeine now and then.  So that’s what I do when I need to and when I want to. 

When all your concerns focus on your likes and what your loved ones fancy, it’s not that difficult.  Since you generally know those likes and dislikes.  It takes a whole new perspective on things when you need to project what other people like.  How they want things to be set and styled.  Will they like this color?  Is the arrangement fancy enough?  Are these items cool enough?  In managing a small business, is it practical to buy too much of this stuff?  Is it worth it in the long run?

Those things are important enough, but if you allow it, overthinking and micromanaging could drive the fun out of what you’re doing.  Then you’ll end up being sorry for yourself because you’re too tired to do other fun stuff.  When in fact you are doing something you enjoy, or used to enjoy.

It is why I am thankful that I am constantly reminded, when I hang out with my family, surrounded by my plants, that I love where I am right now.  I love the challenges of extra work, the novelty of some areas of my work.  The pleasure I get out of simply doing what I think and feel is best and not overanalyzing things.

Because at the end of it all, to be able to share a tangible proof of love and appreciation to our loved ones, is a reward in itself.

Giving is always better than receiving and I enjoy both.  I hope you do too as Living Gifts offers a variety of those gifts from small, medium and large plants, pots and other accessories, to help you in your plant growing journey, for your enjoyment and your  loved ones.

I hope one day soon you’ll share your thoughts and experiences with growing your own plants, how you care for those you bought and what you feel when you share your gifts with your friends and loved ones.

Happy giving gifts everyone!